Wednesday, October 12, 2022

A tale of two kitties

From May 29-Sept. 16, 2021, we fostered a 2-year-old spayed and microchipped cat named Miss Grey through Best Friends Animal Society. My kids had been wanting a pet, and fostering was a great way to see if we had allergy problems and how a cat fit into our life. My Husband and I picked her up from their Salt Lake center and surprised the kids (although they were suspicious as I had moved our Betta fish into an upstairs room earlier that day). We set her things up in our laundry room, opened the carrier, and she immediately hid behind the washing machine:


She bolted into the garage on day 2 and we found her 24 hours later up and under our truck! We started it to scare her out and made a barrier of family members and brooms to herd her toward the house. Thankfully that worked, and she didn’t get lost in the neighborhood/eaten by coyotes. She finally got brave enough to wander around the house in our presence after about 10 days.

Miss Grey was hilarious and so athletic with her toys, especially the ping pong ball. She began following me around the house and sticking her paws under doors when she knew I was on the other side. I put a blanket in the hall near our bedroom door where she often slept at night--no pets in the bed at night for us! 

She was so agile that she had no problem jumping onto the foosball table mid-game, onto the hall ledge with my magnet board, or smushing herself under furniture:   


I got a cat tower that she spent lots of time in, especially when someone was playing the piano:



She wasn't very cuddly though, and only 1st Brother was brave enough to pick her up--he wasn't as scared of her half-hearted swats and bites as the rest of us were:


She got way too brave jumping on the stair railings and posts. I was sure she was going to fall, but she only scratched up the paint while giving us all heart attacks: 


She was easy to care for and we loved having her, but a couple of us felt itchy and she was a bit of a psycho, so we decided to get the Siberian Forest kitten we'd been on a waiting list for and return Miss Grey. I tried to find her a home, paying for an online classified ad, updating her Best Friends profile with additional info and pics, and asking people at work, friends of friends, etc. if they wanted her, but we ultimately took her back. Of course she jumped into my lap for the first time like an hour before our return appointment, and I cried when we dropped her off. She did get adopted a couple of months later.  


We picked up our kitten about a week later on Sept 24 from Utah Siberian cats in Payson. It turns out the breeders, the Trasks, had been in the same church congregation as my cousin and his wife, and they also knew my friend from high school. I'd been following their Instagram account and been keeping tabs on the only female in the litter--she had 4 brothers--who would likely be ours. Here is her mom Opal and the post about her birth: 


We had a chance to get a male cat from a litter that went home in August, but my husband really wanted a girl, and since he'd grown up with both, I deferred to him. We almost had to wait until October as the breeders were going to keep our girl at one point, but they decided not to. So we paid $2,000 and brought her home. (I felt a little gross about the cost since Miss Grey would have been $25 and was already fixed and chipped, but we tried!). Even though they are long-haired, the Siberian breed has less of the protein in their saliva that makes people allergic, so that alone has been worth the price. 

I came up with some Halloween names since she has all the colors, then we almost named her Bobbi because she looks like a bobcat. But Sister suggested Coco, and that seemed to be the best fit though it's not that original. She was immediately friendly and very, very cute: 


Aren't her markings cool? Here she is staring at a bag of cat food, and you can see the split-down-the-middle orange and black hair on the back of her head:


Her front paw colors are really interesting too:


This is one of my favorite pictures when she found a cozy spot next to a kitchen heat vent: 


She's very curious and social. She usually greets us at the door when we return home, and she likes to be where we are:


My sister got an adorable labradoodle puppy around the same time we got Coco. A dog wasn't an option because the allergies are miserable for a few of us, but I was glad because we didn't have to deal with the potty training, sharp-tooth bites, humping, and eat-anything snarfing that she did. Cats are so easy! The long hair is a little annoying, but we've had zero poop or pee accidents, she doesn't need to be walked, bathed, groomed, socialized, or trained, she doesn't scratch up our stuff, and we can leave her for a day or two with no pet sitter if needed. It turns out that I'm a cat person!  


Miss Grey liked to sit in boxes, and Coco does too. She rushes over if we open any sort of cabinet to investigate sitting there, and she likes to get inside pop-up hampers, plastic bags, and sit on suitcases: 


She's an indoor cat--I decided that in part when I read Cats for Dummies and it said they can get mites from birds or rodents that they kill outside. No thank you! But we do take her outside while holding her sometimes, and she's been out with a harness and leash in the backyard:


She loves Nerf darts and will do a chattering, clicky noise with her mouth before we throw or shoot them. There's one in the cuckoo picture of her below, and we find them in her water and food bowls a lot:


She has a strange reaction to strawberries (?) and rubs her head and cheeks on the plastic packaging and gently bites it:


This was my view when I glanced over one day in the kitchen. She lies on her back a lot and looks so floofy:


She rarely uses the cat tower or the scratching surfaces I've purchased for her, and she doesn't like wet cat food or treats that we've tried, although she does react to cat nip. She often sleeps on the tops of the back cushions of our comfy family room chairs, and she hangs out on the old kitchen chair that is now hers during dinner and while looking out the back window. Her grooming routine had been interrupted in this picture:


Coco brings us so much joy and comfort, and we are very glad to have her. 

Monday, August 15, 2022

Visiting America’s Hat

We went on our first family trip to Canada from August 2-9, 2022. My husband was born in Edmonton and grew up in Blackfalds, Alberta, so we spent all our time in that province. Even though they have Canadian citizenship, our kids still needed passports, so we had to get that in order and meet some annoying Covid requirements--vaccination proof was required via the AirCan app for all but Sister, and we had to wear masks on the flights in and out of Canada--but we made it through without any problems.

We stayed at an Airbnb in Canmore while we did things in Banff. On the first day, we did the boat tour of Lake Minnewanka:


walked around Cascade Gardens that had lovely flower displays like these:


and went on a trail next to the Bow River that had art installations along the way:


I requested that my husband stand for a picture with this butt tree (not part of the art):  


and we wandered around the Fairmont Banff Springs hotel. I had looked into staying there, if only for one night, but it cost $1100 on the low end!


We rode the Banff Gondola, and the views were spectacular! You can see the Fairmont's golf course in the upper middle of the picture:



My favorite hike of the whole trip was Johnston Canyon. It was very good to get there early, and I was amazed by the engineers who found a way to safely bolt walkways to the rock walls:  



Canadian family selfie:

Lake Moraine was so stunning that I got teary as I came up to the overlook:


We were ultimately grateful for the rain on the second day because it thinned the crowds and let us get parking instead of taking shuttles. But it did make us decide not to canoe on Lake Louise, which I had been looking forward to. We got this picture in front of it instead: 


We took a worker's recommendation and drove 40 minutes into British Columbia to try to canoe on the aptly named Emerald Lake:



But the rain/lightning was still a factor, so we ate at the yummy Cilantro Cafe there instead. We also saw the roaring Takkaka Falls in Yoho Park:



Sister and my husband wanted to get close and got soaked by the mist:


On our way of town on the third day, Sister and 1st Brother joined me in checking out Cave and Basin National Historic Site, a hot springs area whose protection led to the Canadian national park system. The grotto was very cool: 


and there was a huge paved-over swimming pool that was used by the public until the 1980s. The site was also used as an internment camp during World War I, mostly for Ukrainians. I didn't know Canada had internment camps too, and before the Japanese WWII ones in the U.S.

When walking around the grounds, we came upon this woodpecker. It was huge and one of the most fascinating animals I've ever seen in the wild:  


Our next stop was the Columbia Icefield:

We paid to do the tour that included being driven to the glaciers in a snow cat thing: 
 

We drank some of the cold running water like the young adult workers said we could--the colors were pretty neat: 


2nd Brother and Sister got really into hacking through the snow to the slush underneath using the bamboo walking sticks they gave us. I've never seen them be so focused and industrious: 


Back near the visitor's center, we walked on the glass skywalk that's high above the valley and river. It was doable even for a person like me who has a decent fear of heights:


Before we went the rest of the way to Jasper National Park, we did a hike near the extremely powerful Athabasca Falls:  


and had some happy family time throwing rocks in the water/trying to ricochet them off specific boulders:


We stayed at a Holiday Inn Express in Hinton because it was cheaper than staying in Jasper itself. It was about an hour away though, and I probably wouldn't do that again. 

The Jasper Skytram and steep high-elevation hike that we did to start off the fourth day was a good time:   



as was the 1-hour guided horseback ride we did through the forest with Jasper Park Riding Stables. Sister has taken horseback riding lessons for several years now, and we knew she would be into this:   


We ended the day doing the sometimes-scary 5 Bridges hike in Maligne Canyon. Here's me near a less-frightening portion of the river: 


On the morning of day five, it was time to look awesome while rafting some level 2 rapids: 
 

If anyone ever says, "Tell me about a time when you were insanely itchy," then I'll have a good answer: "It was when I was wearing a clammy wetsuit in the direct sun for 20+ minutes while listening to safety instructions for a river rafting excursion. My whole-body eczema got very irritated by the heat and sweat, but I could do nothing about it because I was entombed by my life vest and a layer of neoprene." My itchy skin is often an issue, and my starting to take Curex allergy drops (like allergy shots) 6 weeks prior to our vacation helped set me up for some very bad times. 

We did part of the Valley of the Five Lakes hike in the afternoon and saw water that reminded me of the Yellowstone hot pools: 


The next morning, we made the spontaneous decision to go to the West Edmonton Mall, which is the largest in North America. It had a Toys R Us (which sadly closed in the U.S. several years ago), a cool Lego store, an indoor amusement park, ice skating rink, and this water park that also had a zipline above it: 


Then we showed the kids the places where my husband grew up: the Wetaskiwin house he lived in until age 4, his home golf course, high school, and LDS church in Lacombe (which he helped build as part of the construction crew), his elementary and middle schools in Blackfalds as well as the Essie gas station where he worked, and the Blackfalds house he lived in from age 4 until he left home: 


We stayed at the Drumheller Ramada Inn for our final night, then visited the very cool exhibits in the Royal Tyrrell Museum of Paleontology on our final day:



My candy favorites were Maltesers (like Whoppers but better), and Maynard's Fuzzy Peaches:


The McCain's frozen chocolate cake was pretty good too:

Our best meal was at L&W restaurant in Jasper where I had some delicious chicken souvalki; there is a lot of Greek food in Alberta. Boston Pizza has many locations and was a family favorite:


It was fun to look around Canadian Tire, which is kind of like Walmart:
 

Most things had English and French translations. This sign made me laugh because "les chutes" is a funny thing to call waterfalls, don't you think?: 



Evidence that bathrooms are called "washrooms" in Canada:



The two hotels we stayed in not only had pools but waterslides in them! I did not partake because of my horrible skin, but my husband was a good sport and took the kids. That splash is him coming out of the bottom of one slide:  


Some of the woods near the roads had wire fences, and we would periodically see these wildlife crossing bridges:
 

We saw several elk and bighorn sheep as well as this black bear from the road:
 

Saturday, June 18, 2022

Friday, January 21, 2022

2022 Birthday CD

I didn't think I had enough quality content to make a CD this year, but thanks to a 14-day free trial of Spotify Premium, I ended up with plenty:

1) Give Me the Night: George Benson
2) STAY: The Kid Laroi and Justin Bieber
3) Circles: Post Malone
4) My Lovin’ (You’re Never Gonna Get It): En Vogue--there are three songs on this year’s CD with funny parentheses in the titles
5) What Can I Say: Boz Scaggs--if she doesn't know this song already, I think it'll be my sister's favorite track
6) When I’m With You: Sparks--I watched the excellent documentary The Sparks Brothers about this band when traveling to/from San Jose on Southwest Airlines over Thanksgiving break. This is my favorite song of theirs so far
7) Heat Waves: Glass Animals--the young 20-somethings I work with alerted me to this band, and to the band of the next track 
8) Bang!: AJR
9) Jump (For My Love): The Pointer Sisters--I did a Chinese jump rope routine with my 2nd grade class to this song
10) Never Gonna Give You Up: Barry Manilow--this cover of Rick Astley’s song is very good 
11) Believe What I Say: Kanye West--credit to 1st Brother. We can talk about music now!
12) Turn Your Love Around: George Benson 
13) Never Be the Same: Christopher Cross
14) Cold Heart (PNAU Remix): Elton John & Dua Lipa--credit to my husband
15) I'm So Free: Beck--I haven't liked much of Beck's stuff in recent years, but the 2017 Colors album this song is from is an exception
16) Guilty: Barbra Streisand & Barry Gibb--I originally looked this up after it was discussed during an episode of the Tig and Cheryl: True Story podcast and realized it's the song the chubby Asian kid sings at the beginning of the Barb and Star Go to Vista del Mar movie preview   
17) I'm So Excited: The Pointer Sisters 
18) Reach Out and Touch (Somebody's Hand): Diana Ross--I remember we listened to this in class in elementary school and it made me teary; it still does 
19) Addams Groove: MC Hammer--this year's embarrassing track

Friday, September 10, 2021

Probably not

 Kids could take these to a slappy, irreverent place real quick.



Friday, August 6, 2021

What nature wants me to be

I’m trying to fight it.

Saturday, June 19, 2021

I coach young people at sports

Sister got into hitting baseballs and playing catch awhile back, so I suggested she sign up to play girls’ softball this spring. She agreed, and I ended up as head coach (!) after two emails that asked for parent volunteers went unanswered. I played growing up including two years in high school—goooo T-birds!—and most of the 3rd and 4th grade girls on this team had played very little if at all, so I figured they probably wouldn’t discover that I only kind of know what I’m doing.

You know how there are people who are natural coaches who relate to kids and easily get their attention and respect? That ain’t me. My voice is shrill and weak, I get flustered when in charge of a group, and it’s sometimes hard for me to hide when I’m annoyed. BUT I am organized and pretty good at letting parents know what’s up, and that’s half the battle. I even arranged for this team picture to be taken after I learned that the league didn’t do that:

Here are some things I’ll remember about our season:

-The girls voted to call the team the Blue Dragons. (Another team we played was on the same wavelength; they were the Amethyst Dragons)

-No one got seriously hurt! This was a concern since most girls couldn’t catch and they hit off a pitching machine that was FAST. We practiced part of the time with “tape balls,” i.e., men’s socks wrapped in duct tape, an idea I got from the Internet

-The girls stepped up to take turns playing catcher and wore all the gear. I didn’t make it an option but was nervous, and some got pinched and bumped but nothing horrible resulted 

-Parents were great to help out, and I’m so glad I asked up front for assistance with specific things like scorekeeper, 1st and 3rd base coaches, dugout manager, catcher’s helper, practice assistants, etc. One parent helper proposed that the girls roll the ball to (x) base to make an out instead of throwing it. It looked a bit goofy but was much more effective. Having a snack/treat after the games was also important

-I offered a Jolly Rancher to any girl who could catch a ball for an out. That didn’t happen until our last game when one girl caught a fly ball at 2nd then tagged the base for a double play! She got to take the whole bag of candy home